👋 Why Safe Approach Matters

Approaching a dog without permission can lead to fear, stress, or bites—even from a normally friendly pet. Whether you're meeting a friend’s dog or a pup on the street, approaching with respect and calm sets the tone for trust 🐶🤝.

✅ Step-by-Step: How to Approach a Dog

1. 1. Ask the owner’s permission: Always check before interacting. “May I say hello?” is essential, especially with kids involved.
2. 2. Let the dog approach you: Stand still, turn your body slightly to the side, and avoid staring. Let the dog decide.
3. 3. Offer your hand low, palm-down: This is non-threatening and lets them sniff you first.
4. 4. Watch their body language: Tail wagging ≠ consent. Look for relaxed posture, loose body, and curiosity.
5. 5. Pet gently on chest or side: Never reach over the head initially—opt for low, calm strokes if they invite contact.

🚫 Don’ts When Approaching Dogs

• ❌ Don’t reach over their head or lean forward aggressively
• ❌ Don’t make loud noises, clap, or crouch suddenly
• ❌ Don’t force a greeting if they move away
• ❌ Don’t approach dogs tied outside, sleeping, or eating

👀 Reading Dog Body Language

• ✔️ Interested/relaxed: Soft eyes, slow wag, loose stance, sniffing calmly
• ❓ Uncertain: Licking lips, yawning, looking away, stiff tail
• 🚨 Back off: Growling, backing up, frozen body, raised hackles, hard stare

Respect their signals—dogs always communicate before they escalate.

🧠 Why Some Dogs Are More Wary

• 🐕🦺 Former shelter dogs or those with trauma histories
• 🐾 Poor socialization as puppies
• 🧬 Breed sensitivity (e.g., some herding or guarding breeds)
• ⚕️ Pain or illness—always ask the owner if they’re recovering

👨👩👧👦 Teaching Kids to Greet Dogs Safely

• 🧍 Stand still, hands by side (“be a tree”)
• 🗣️ Ask permission from owner first
• 🐶 Let the dog come to you
• 🖐️ Pet gently under chin—not top of the head

Practice using plush toys or family pets before real interactions.

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📅 Safe Greeting Routine Summary

🎯 Final Thoughts

Approaching a dog safely shows respect—and builds trust. Always ask, go slow, read the signals, and prioritize the dog’s comfort. Whether it’s your friend’s dog, one at the park, or even your own new rescue, following these steps ensures a safe, positive experience for everyone 🐕💛.

— Dr Duncan Houston, BVSc

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